These 4 Mistakes Will Make You a Burden on Your Children in Old Age — A 90 Year Old's Warning

I am 90 years old. And I have watched too many men my age spend their final years feeling like a burden on their own children. Yeh unki qismat nahi thi. Yeh unki 4 galtiyan thीं — jo unhone jawani mein kीं, aur budhape mein uski keemat adा ki. Budhape mein sabse bada dard beemari nahi hoti. Sabse bada dard yeh hota hai jab tumhare apne bachche tumhari taraf uss nazar se dekhein — jaise tum unke kandhon ka bojh ho. Main nahi chahta ke tum wahan pahuncho. Isliye aaj main tumhe woh 4 galtiyan bata raha hoon — taake tum inse bach sako. Pehli galti — apni sehat ko nazarandaz karna. Jawani mein laga ke jism hamesha saath dega. Budhape mein wahi jism sabse bada bojh ban jaata hai — apne liye bhi, aur bachchon ke liye bhi. Doosri galti — budhape ke liye kuch na bachana. Yeh soch kar ke "bachche dekh lenge." Bachche apni zindagi mein busy ho jaate hain. Jab tumhare paas apna kuch nahi hota, tab har chhoti zaroorat ke liye haath phailana padta hai. Teesri galti — apne aap ko rishton se kaat lena. Poori zindagi sirf kaam, sirf bachche. Koi dost nahi, koi apna mashghala nahi. Jab bachche door chale jaate hain, tab akelapan sabse bada bojh ban jaata hai. Chauthi galti — har waqt shikayat karna. Apna dukh, apni takleef, apni tanhaai — baar baar bachchon ke saamne rakhna. Dhीre dhीre woh tumhare paas aana kam kar dete hain. Kyunki koi bhi bojh utha kar khush nahi rehta. Yeh 4 galtiyan aaj hi theek karo. Apni sehat banao. Apne liye kuch bachao. Apne rishton ko waqt do. Aur apni takleef ka bojh doosron par mat daalo. Kyunki budhapा azaab nahi hona chahiye — na tumhare liye, na tumhare bachchon ke liye. Ek budhe ki yeh aakhri nasihat hai — kaash koi mujhe yeh jawani mein bata deta. These 4 Mistakes Will Make You a Burden on Your Children in Old Age — A 90 Year Old's Warning