Stay Silent in These 6 Situations — 90 Saal Ke Buzurg Ki Nasihat

I am 90 years old. And if I could give you just one lesson from my long life, it would be this — silence is not weakness. Silence is the greatest power a man can hold. Maine apni zindagi mein bahut kuch bol kar khoya. Aur bahut kuch khamosh reh kar bachaya. Aaj main tumhe woh 6 mauqe bata raha hoon jahan zabaan bند rakhna hi asli aqalmandi hai. Pehla mauqa — jab tumhe ghussa ho. Ghusse mein nikla hua lafz kabhi wapas nahi aata. Maine apne bhai Yaqoob se ghusse mein kuch kaha tha — aur uske baad hum 11 saal nahi bole. Woh chala gaya, aur maafi ka mauqa mere haath se nikal gaya. Doosra mauqa — jab do log aapस mein lad rahe hon. Beech mein bolne wala dono ka dushman ban jaata hai. Tamashai bane raho, judge mat bano. Teesra mauqa — jab koi apna dukh suna raha ho. Us waqt insaan mashwara nahi chahta — sirf yeh chahta hai ke koi sunne wala ho. Shameem yeh baat mujhe baar baar samjhati thi, aur main har baar hal batane lagta tha. Chautha mauqa — jab tumhari raay ki koi qadr na ho. Jo insaan tumhare lafzon ki izzat na kare, uske saamne khamoshi hi sabse acha jawab hai. Paanchwa mauqa — jab tumhare paas pakka saboot na ho. Sirf sun-i sunai baat par kisi ke bare mein mat bolo — kyunki ek afwah kisi ki poori zindagi barbaad kar sakti hai. Chhata mauqa — jab koi tumhe jaan boojh kar ghussa dilane ki koshish kare. Woh chahta hai ke tum apna aap kho do. Us waqt khamoshi hi tumhari sabse badi jeet hai. Yaad rakho — bolna chandi hai, magar khamoshi sona hai. Zindagi mein woh log sabse zyada izzat paate hain jo jaante hain ke kab bolna hai, aur kab chup rehna hai. Ek budhe ki yeh nasihat hai — kaash koi mujhe yeh jawani mein bata deta. Stay Silent in These 6 Situations — 90 Saal Ke Buzurg Ki Nasihat