Log Tumhari Beizzati Karne Se Darenge — 90 Saal Ki Umar Mein Yeh 7 Raaz Samajh Aaye

I am 90 years old. And I will tell you something that took me a lifetime to learn. Duniya mein do tarah ke log hote hain. Ek woh jिनकी beizzati koi nahi karta. Aur doosre woh jिन्हें har koi halka samajhta hai. Fark unki taaqat mein nahi. Fark unke paison mein nahi. Fark kuch aur hai — kuch jo nazar nahi aata, magar har koi feel karta hai. Mera ek purana dost tha — Rafiq. Achha insaan tha, mehnati tha, imaandaar tha. Magar poori zindagi log uski beizzati karte rahe. Uske maalik, uske padosi, uske rishtedaar, hatta ke uski apni aulaad bhi. Jab Rafiq do saal pehle guzar gaya, tab mujhe samajh aaya — uski beizzati ki wajah Rafiq ke andar thi, duniya mein nahi. Aur woh wajah — woh saat wajahaat — aaj main tumhare saath share karna chahta hoon. Pehli wajah — Rafiq ne kabhi khud ki qadr nahi ki. Shameem ne mujhe ek baar kaha tha — Kabir jab tum khud ko sab se aakhir mein rakhte ho, duniya bhi tumhe aakhir mein rakhti hai. Yeh baat mujhe 30 saal mein samajh aayi. Doosri wajah — Rafiq har baat par safaai deta tha. Aur jo insaan har baat explain karta rehta hai, woh duniya ko bata deta hai ke use doosron ki manzuri chahiye. Aur jise manzuri ki bhook ho — use control karna aasaan ho jaata hai. Teesri wajah — Maine 8 saal mein Sharafat ko 40 baar paisa diya. Jab ek baar "nahi" kaha — woh kehne laga Kabir badal gaya hai. 40 baar "haan" — aur ek "nahi" ne mujhe dushman bana diya. Yahi hota hai jab tum "nahi" kehna nahi seekhte. Chauthi wajah — Maine ek baar ek bade customer ke saamne apni mali mushkil bata di. Usi waqt se woh mujhe har saude mein dabata raha. Tumhari kamzori jo duniya ko pata ho — woh hathiyaar ban jaati hai. Paanchvi wajah — Habib poori zindagi har kisi ke liye har waqt maujood raha. Nateeja? Kisi ne uski qadr nahi ki. Jo cheez aasaani se milti hai — uski qadr nahi hoti. Chhathi wajah — Mujhe 15 saal lage Tahir bhai ke saamne had banana seekhne mein. Jab pehli baar "nahi" kaha — woh 6 mahine tak naraaz rahe. Magar uske baad unhone mujhe pehli baar izz