How to stop being so nice (without being mean)

Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook! In this episode, we’re breaking down how to stop being so nice without being mean, and how to build the kind of self-respect that actually makes people treat you differently. This episode isn’t telling you to become cold. It’s telling you to stop abandoning yourself just to keep everyone comfortable. Because you don’t exist to be convenient. You deserve to be respected. Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro 0:35 – Being Nice vs Being Kind 4:43 – People Pleasing Recovery 8:27 – How to Be Assertive 11:28 – Where to Start 13:12 – Final Message Join the It Girl Newsletter: https://itgirlplaybook.beehiiv.com/subscribe Get The Playbook Mini (yes, it's free): https://itgirlplaybook.beehiiv.com/products/the-playbook-mini Get The Charisma Playbook (yes, it's free also): https://itgirlplaybook.beehiiv.com/products/the-charisma-playbook For more glow up videos, check out our sister channel: @‌ItGirlGlowUp #ItGirlPlaybook #LevelUp #Charisma #MagneticAura #PeoplePleasing #CadyHeron #JanisIan #MeanGirls #MirandaPriestly #AndySachs #Nigel #TheDevilWearsPrada #SamanthaJones #CharlotteYork #SexAndTheCity #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfImprovement #GlowUp #FeminineEnergy #SelfRespect